"Women in particular need to keep an eye on their physical and mental health, because if we're scurrying to and from appointments and errands, we don't have a lot of time to take care of ourselves. We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own 'to do' list"
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The quote also refuses the cheap empowerment script that frames burnout as a personal failure. She doesn’t say women should simply “try harder” to be balanced. She points to the time economy: appointments and errands aren’t moral shortcomings; they’re obligations distributed unevenly by gender. When she says “in particular,” she signals that this isn’t generic wellness content. It’s about a demographic pattern that polite society often treats as private.
Context sharpens the intent. As First Lady, Obama operated in a role built on caretaking optics, while also championing initiatives tied to health and family life. Her credibility comes from living inside the expectation she’s naming. The punch of the ending - “higher on our own ‘to do’ list” - is rhetorical jiu-jitsu: she adopts the language of productivity culture, then redirects it toward dignity. It’s not “treat yourself.” It’s “claim time,” a small rebellion with public-health consequences.
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| Topic | Self-Care |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Obama, Michelle. (2026, January 17). Women in particular need to keep an eye on their physical and mental health, because if we're scurrying to and from appointments and errands, we don't have a lot of time to take care of ourselves. We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own 'to do' list. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-in-particular-need-to-keep-an-eye-on-their-33365/
Chicago Style
Obama, Michelle. "Women in particular need to keep an eye on their physical and mental health, because if we're scurrying to and from appointments and errands, we don't have a lot of time to take care of ourselves. We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own 'to do' list." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-in-particular-need-to-keep-an-eye-on-their-33365/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Women in particular need to keep an eye on their physical and mental health, because if we're scurrying to and from appointments and errands, we don't have a lot of time to take care of ourselves. We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own 'to do' list." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-in-particular-need-to-keep-an-eye-on-their-33365/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









