"Women like silent men. They think they're listening"
About this Quote
The joke runs on asymmetry. “They think they’re listening” implies listening is less a skill than a mirage, something inferred from posture and restraint. Achard, a playwright, knows how audiences fill gaps: a pause onstage isn’t empty, it’s charged. Silence can look like depth, seriousness, self-control. In romantic scripts, it can also look like safety: the silent man won’t contradict you, won’t expose his own needs, won’t force you into negotiation. He simply receives.
Context matters: a mid-20th-century French boulevard sensibility, amused by bourgeois rituals and lightly cruel about gender. The line flatters male cynicism (say less, win more) while smuggling in a critique of how women’s speech is often treated as noise unless it’s met with conspicuous “listening.” Achard’s intent isn’t sociology; it’s stagecraft: a mean little epigram that turns a power dynamic into a laugh, then leaves the bruise visible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Quote attributed to Marcel Achard (French playwright). Commonly cited as: "Women like silent men. They think they're listening." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Achard, Marcel. (2026, January 15). Women like silent men. They think they're listening. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-like-silent-men-they-think-theyre-listening-170167/
Chicago Style
Achard, Marcel. "Women like silent men. They think they're listening." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-like-silent-men-they-think-theyre-listening-170167/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Women like silent men. They think they're listening." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-like-silent-men-they-think-theyre-listening-170167/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






