"Women must not shout back when their husbands come home and shout at them for any reason"
About this Quote
Because Devi is framed here as a celebrity rather than a lawmaker or theologian, the quote reads less like doctrine and more like lifestyle guidance - the kind that travels easily through magazines, talk shows, and word-of-mouth “wisdom.” That’s what makes it culturally revealing. A public figure can smuggle patriarchy in through the side door, packaged as practicality, harmony, even self-mastery. “For any reason” is the tell: it preemptively cancels context, guilt, and fairness. Whatever happened, the woman’s job is to not escalate. The husband’s anger becomes weather; her response is expected to be climate control.
The subtext is a bargain many women were taught to accept: safety and social approval in exchange for self-erasure. Don’t shout back because shouting back has consequences - emotional, economic, physical. The quote indirectly acknowledges that risk while normalizing it. It also flatters endurance as virtue, turning silence into a kind of moral achievement.
Read now, it lands as a snapshot of respectability politics inside marriage: peace not as mutual care, but as disciplined compliance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Devi, Indra. (2026, January 15). Women must not shout back when their husbands come home and shout at them for any reason. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-must-not-shout-back-when-their-husbands-170919/
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Devi, Indra. "Women must not shout back when their husbands come home and shout at them for any reason." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-must-not-shout-back-when-their-husbands-170919/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Women must not shout back when their husbands come home and shout at them for any reason." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/women-must-not-shout-back-when-their-husbands-170919/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.








