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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jean Kerr

"Women speak because they wish to speak, whereas a man speaks only when driven to speak by something outside himself like, for instance, he can't find any clean socks"

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Kerr’s punchline lands like a well-aimed hatpin: it flatters women with agency while skewering men as creatures so unreflective they only open their mouths when domestic infrastructure collapses. The clean-socks tag is doing the real work. It drags the grand, foggy mythology of “men are rational, women are talkative” down into the laundry basket, where gender ideology looks less like destiny and more like habit, entitlement, and mild incompetence.

As a midcentury American comic voice, Kerr is writing into a culture that treated women’s speech as background noise and men’s speech as purposeful pronouncement. Her reversal exposes the rigged scoring system: when women talk, it’s framed as impulse; when men talk, it’s framed as necessity. Kerr mocks that framing by granting women a simple, radical motive: they speak because they want to. Desire becomes legitimacy. Men, meanwhile, are reduced to reactive beings “driven” by external triggers, and the chosen trigger is deliberately unheroic. Not war, not politics, not breadwinning - socks.

The subtext is marital theater: the household as a stage where men perform helplessness and women carry the cognitive load. The joke isn’t that men are silent; it’s that their “reasons” for speaking are often outsourced to women’s labor. Kerr makes sexism look small by making it look ridiculous, and that’s the sting: the line laughs, then quietly indicts the system that made this dynamic feel normal enough to be funny.

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Jean Kerr (July 10, 1923 - January 5, 2003) was a Playwright from USA.

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