"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition"
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Leary’s line lands like a compliment and behaves like a trap. On its face, it pretends to praise women’s potential: equality is framed as too small a goal. But the bait-and-switch is the point. By defining “equal with men” as a low ceiling, he quietly installs men as the baseline and then scolds women for aiming at it. The insult isn’t just to feminists; it’s to the very idea that parity is a meaningful political demand. Leary turns structural injustice into a personality flaw: if you want equal pay, equal safety, equal authority, the problem is your “ambition,” not the system.
The subtext carries a familiar counterculture swagger. Leary, the psychedelic evangelist who sold liberation as an inner voyage, often treated politics as a secondary theater to consciousness. In that worldview, calling equality “unambitious” sounds like a dare: transcend, don’t negotiate. It’s a seductive posture, especially from a male guru in an era when “freedom” talk could glide past the unpaid labor of women, the legal constraints on their bodies, the closed doors in education and work. Radicalism, here, is aesthetic: a rhetorical flex that costs him nothing.
The line also smuggles in a patriarchal fantasy of “more than equal” without specifying what “more” looks like in practice. If equality is beneath you, what replaces it - dominance, exceptionalism, spiritual superiority? The vagueness is strategic. It flatters the listener while draining feminism of its concrete, measurable demands. That’s why it works: it sounds insurgent while quietly keeping the old hierarchy intact.
The subtext carries a familiar counterculture swagger. Leary, the psychedelic evangelist who sold liberation as an inner voyage, often treated politics as a secondary theater to consciousness. In that worldview, calling equality “unambitious” sounds like a dare: transcend, don’t negotiate. It’s a seductive posture, especially from a male guru in an era when “freedom” talk could glide past the unpaid labor of women, the legal constraints on their bodies, the closed doors in education and work. Radicalism, here, is aesthetic: a rhetorical flex that costs him nothing.
The line also smuggles in a patriarchal fantasy of “more than equal” without specifying what “more” looks like in practice. If equality is beneath you, what replaces it - dominance, exceptionalism, spiritual superiority? The vagueness is strategic. It flatters the listener while draining feminism of its concrete, measurable demands. That’s why it works: it sounds insurgent while quietly keeping the old hierarchy intact.
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| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Later attribution: Timothy Leary (Timothy Leary) modern compilation
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