"Women's fashion is a subtle form of bondage. It's men's way of binding them. We put them in these tight, high-heeled shoes, we make them wear these tight clothes and we say they look sexy. But they're actually tied up"
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The mechanics of the line matter. The repeated "we" is a confession and an indictment, collapsing individual men into a collective system. It’s not "they choose" or "society makes them" but "we put them", "we make them", "we say". That grammar turns male gaze from an abstract concept into an active verb. The pivot - "they look sexy. But..". - exposes the bait-and-switch at the heart of a lot of mainstream beauty culture: pain is reframed as polish, restriction as refinement, immobility as allure.
The subtext is less about banning heels than about revealing the bargain. Fashion becomes a socially acceptable way to limit space, speed, and comfort, while still calling it empowerment because it photographs well. The "tied up" ending lands because it’s literal (restricted movement) and symbolic (time, money, attention diverted into maintenance).
Contextually, it fits a late-20th/early-21st-century moment when men in pop culture started adopting the language of gender critique - sometimes earnestly, sometimes clumsily. Duchovny’s intent reads as earnest, but the framing still centers male agency: even the critique can’t resist making men the authors of the trap. That tension is exactly why it sticks.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duchovny, David. (2026, January 17). Women's fashion is a subtle form of bondage. It's men's way of binding them. We put them in these tight, high-heeled shoes, we make them wear these tight clothes and we say they look sexy. But they're actually tied up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/womens-fashion-is-a-subtle-form-of-bondage-its-41007/
Chicago Style
Duchovny, David. "Women's fashion is a subtle form of bondage. It's men's way of binding them. We put them in these tight, high-heeled shoes, we make them wear these tight clothes and we say they look sexy. But they're actually tied up." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/womens-fashion-is-a-subtle-form-of-bondage-its-41007/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Women's fashion is a subtle form of bondage. It's men's way of binding them. We put them in these tight, high-heeled shoes, we make them wear these tight clothes and we say they look sexy. But they're actually tied up." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/womens-fashion-is-a-subtle-form-of-bondage-its-41007/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







