"Writing this book was very therapeutic because it helped me face my relationship with my dad"
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The key move is the phrase “helped me face my relationship with my dad.” Not “understand,” not “celebrate,” not “honor” - face. That verb implies avoidance, fear, unfinished business. It suggests that the father-son story isn’t automatically softened by heroism, and that proximity to greatness can complicate intimacy. The book becomes a mediated encounter: safer than a conversation you can no longer have, more honest than the public scripts people expect from a civil rights heir.
Context matters because activism is often imagined as outward-facing, all marching and messaging. King’s line smuggles in an inward-facing activism: the work of refusing inherited narratives that flatten people into roles. Subtextually, he’s also signaling boundaries to the audience. You can read this, but you don’t get to demand perfect closure or a sanitizing tribute. The intent is accountability to his own life, not just to the mythology attached to his father’s.
Quote Details
| Topic | Father |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Dexter S. (2026, January 17). Writing this book was very therapeutic because it helped me face my relationship with my dad. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-this-book-was-very-therapeutic-because-it-66097/
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King, Dexter S. "Writing this book was very therapeutic because it helped me face my relationship with my dad." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-this-book-was-very-therapeutic-because-it-66097/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Writing this book was very therapeutic because it helped me face my relationship with my dad." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-this-book-was-very-therapeutic-because-it-66097/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







