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Daily Inspiration Quote by David Hackworth

"Writing with you is the only thing that keeps me alive"

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"Writing with you is the only thing that keeps me alive" lands like a battlefield confession smuggled into a love line. Coming from David Hackworth, a soldier who built his identity on motion, danger, and command, the sentence flips the usual hierarchy: the weapon isn’t what sustains him; the act of shaping experience into language, alongside a specific other person, is.

The phrasing does two things at once. "Writing" is craft and control, a way to impose order on chaos. "With you" makes it relational, almost co-dependent, turning survival into a shared operation. It’s not "writing" in the abstract that keeps him breathing, but collaboration - the sense that someone is receiving, challenging, and witnessing the story. For a veteran, that’s not sentimental; it’s tactical. Trauma isolates. Partnership punctures the sealed container.

The line’s extremity ("only thing") is the tell. Soldiers are trained to deal in absolutes - mission, enemy, alive, dead - and Hackworth carries that binary into intimacy. He’s not politely saying the work matters. He’s admitting that without a narrative and a trusted counterpart, the accumulated weight of what he’s seen becomes unlivable. In the late-20th-century American context, when Vietnam-era veterans were often reduced to stereotypes (hero, monster, casualty), writing became one of the few arenas where a combatant could reclaim authorship.

It’s also a subtle reversal of masculinity: the tough guy’s lifeline isn’t stoicism, it’s articulation. Survival, here, is not endurance. It’s being understood.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hackworth, David. (2026, January 15). Writing with you is the only thing that keeps me alive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-with-you-is-the-only-thing-that-keeps-me-167291/

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Hackworth, David. "Writing with you is the only thing that keeps me alive." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-with-you-is-the-only-thing-that-keeps-me-167291/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Writing with you is the only thing that keeps me alive." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/writing-with-you-is-the-only-thing-that-keeps-me-167291/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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David Hackworth (November 11, 1930 - May 4, 2005) was a Soldier from USA.

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