"Yeah, but I do call them back and follow up. Most people talk at overweight people, I talk with them"
About this Quote
“Call them back and follow up” is the unglamorous labor that most transformation narratives skip. It’s also an implicit critique of the industry’s hit-and-run model: shame people into starting, then disappear when they relapse. Simmons is pointing to the part nobody wants to monetize because it’s slow and emotionally messy: accountability that isn’t punishment.
The sharpest move is the verb choice. “Most people talk at overweight people” captures how fat people are routinely treated as surfaces for advice, projections, and moral panic - like their bodies are a debate stage. “I talk with them” flips the power dynamic. The preposition does the work: “at” is instruction plus judgment; “with” is consent, dialogue, and shared dignity. Subtext: weight loss isn’t just physics; it’s relationship, grief, habit, money, and being seen without being scanned.
Coming from Simmons - a flamboyant, relentlessly earnest celebrity often dismissed as kitsch - the quote doubles as self-defense. His sincerity, long treated as spectacle, becomes the point: empathy isn’t a gimmick. It’s the method.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Simmons, Richard. (2026, January 15). Yeah, but I do call them back and follow up. Most people talk at overweight people, I talk with them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yeah-but-i-do-call-them-back-and-follow-up-most-152037/
Chicago Style
Simmons, Richard. "Yeah, but I do call them back and follow up. Most people talk at overweight people, I talk with them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yeah-but-i-do-call-them-back-and-follow-up-most-152037/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Yeah, but I do call them back and follow up. Most people talk at overweight people, I talk with them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yeah-but-i-do-call-them-back-and-follow-up-most-152037/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



