"Years are not important, my dear"
About this Quote
The likely prompt behind it is age, that favorite cultural cudgel reserved for women in public life. Dunaway’s line refuses the premise. She doesn’t argue that age is irrelevant in some abstract, inspirational way; she suggests the category itself is vulgar, a tally-keeping habit for people who want to reduce a life to a number. "Years" becomes bookkeeping, not biography. The syntax helps: no qualifiers, no pleading, no smiley self-deprecation. Just a clean negation.
"My dear" does extra work. It softens the rebuke while asserting hierarchy: she’s in control of the room, the tempo, the intimacy. It also echoes the old Hollywood performance of femininity, where charm and steel share the same lipstick. In an industry that commodifies youth and polices women’s timelines, the phrase reads as both self-protection and quiet indictment. It’s a reminder that the most effective resistance isn’t always a manifesto; sometimes it’s denying your audience the satisfaction of access.
Quote Details
| Topic | Aging |
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Dunaway, Faye. (2026, January 15). Years are not important, my dear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/years-are-not-important-my-dear-146007/
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Dunaway, Faye. "Years are not important, my dear." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/years-are-not-important-my-dear-146007/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Years are not important, my dear." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/years-are-not-important-my-dear-146007/. Accessed 23 Mar. 2026.











