"Yes, and you know, I can't use the nice words anymore because I used to chicken out by using them. I used to call myself plus size, used to call myself chubby. I used to call myself overweight"
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The line that stings is “because I used to chicken out by using them.” “Chicken out” turns the language of weight into a moral drama about courage and fear. She’s not claiming the labels were inaccurate; she’s implying they were soothing. “Plus size,” “chubby,” “overweight” are presented as stepping-stones of denial, each one softening the edge of what she’s finally willing to confront. The repetition of “I used to” reads like a purge, an inventory of old disguises.
In context, Jones speaks from inside the entertainment machine - an industry that sells women’s bodies as both brand and battleground. Her refusal of “nice words” is partly self-directed, partly aimed at an audience trained to reward the palatable confession: be honest, but not too raw; be vulnerable, but keep it cute. She’s rejecting that bargain. The subtext is accountability, yes, but also fatigue: the exhaustion of performing acceptable language about an unacceptable body, and the decision to stop auditioning for other people’s comfort.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, Star. (2026, February 16). Yes, and you know, I can't use the nice words anymore because I used to chicken out by using them. I used to call myself plus size, used to call myself chubby. I used to call myself overweight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-and-you-know-i-cant-use-the-nice-words-165835/
Chicago Style
Jones, Star. "Yes, and you know, I can't use the nice words anymore because I used to chicken out by using them. I used to call myself plus size, used to call myself chubby. I used to call myself overweight." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-and-you-know-i-cant-use-the-nice-words-165835/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Yes, and you know, I can't use the nice words anymore because I used to chicken out by using them. I used to call myself plus size, used to call myself chubby. I used to call myself overweight." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-and-you-know-i-cant-use-the-nice-words-165835/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









