"Yes, forget your weakness, whatever that weakness may be. It is egotism, it is selfishness after. all, for it is a dwelling on self. Forget your weakness; and remember your strength"
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The intent is practical and spiritual at once. In the Victorian religious world Lightfoot inhabited - a culture of strenuous duty, introspection, and public respectability - people were trained to scrutinize their failures as proof of seriousness. Lightfoot pushes back: endless self-audit doesn’t necessarily produce holiness, it produces paralysis. Calling it “selfishness” reframes melancholy and anxiety as misdirected attention, a moral and psychological loop that crowds out service, gratitude, and action.
“Forget” here isn’t denial; it’s a reallocation of focus. Lightfoot pairs it with “remember your strength,” a phrase with biblical resonance (strength as gift, vocation, grace) rather than mere willpower. The subtext is anti-narcissistic Christianity: your life is not a courtroom where you prosecute yourself; it’s a mission field. His rhetoric works because it refuses to romanticize weakness while also refusing to let it have the final word. It’s a call to step out of the mirror and back into the world.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lightfoot, Joseph Barber. (2026, January 18). Yes, forget your weakness, whatever that weakness may be. It is egotism, it is selfishness after. all, for it is a dwelling on self. Forget your weakness; and remember your strength. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-forget-your-weakness-whatever-that-weakness-13513/
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Lightfoot, Joseph Barber. "Yes, forget your weakness, whatever that weakness may be. It is egotism, it is selfishness after. all, for it is a dwelling on self. Forget your weakness; and remember your strength." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-forget-your-weakness-whatever-that-weakness-13513/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Yes, forget your weakness, whatever that weakness may be. It is egotism, it is selfishness after. all, for it is a dwelling on self. Forget your weakness; and remember your strength." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-forget-your-weakness-whatever-that-weakness-13513/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












