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Motherhood Quote by Alice Walker

"Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me"

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The line lands like a benediction that refuses to sentimentalize motherhood. Walker’s speaker starts with obedience - "Yes, Mother" - then immediately pivots to clear-eyed appraisal: "I can see you are flawed". It’s not a takedown; it’s an intimacy. The most radical thing here isn’t the admission of imperfection but the lack of punishment attached to it. The mother’s flaws aren’t presented as a secret shame, or a private failure the child must politely ignore. They’re visible, even declared: "You have not hidden it."

That refusal to perform perfect motherhood is where the power sits. Walker recasts "flaw" from deficit to inheritance: honesty as legacy. In a culture that pressures mothers (especially Black mothers, in Walker’s broader orbit) to be both invulnerable caretakers and moral icons, the mother’s transparency becomes a form of protection. If the child grows up knowing the parent is human, the child is spared the corrosive lesson that love requires illusion.

The subtext is also about craft. Walker has long written against silence - around trauma, around desire, around the roles women are told to play. This sentence treats self-revelation as a pedagogy: the mother teaches by being seen. "That is your greatest gift to me" suggests the gift isn’t comfort, stability, or even sacrifice, but permission: to live without the exhausting armor of perfection, to forgive without lowering standards, to tell the truth and still belong.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walker, Alice. (2026, January 14). Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-mother-i-can-see-you-are-flawed-you-have-not-36870/

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Walker, Alice. "Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-mother-i-can-see-you-are-flawed-you-have-not-36870/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-mother-i-can-see-you-are-flawed-you-have-not-36870/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Alice Walker (born February 9, 1944) is a Author from USA.

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