"Yes, your home is your castle, but it is also your identity and your possibility to be open to others"
About this Quote
Coming from an actor, the line carries an extra layer of performance. Actors trade in personas; they know the difference between what you feel and what you project. Soul’s “identity” isn’t abstract psychology as much as staging. The home is your set, your costume rack, your chosen script of adulthood. Even the decision to keep it bare, messy, overly curated, or rigorously private reads as a character choice.
Then there’s the friction point: “open to others.” It’s not a Hallmark plea for togetherness; it’s a reminder that privacy can curdle into isolation, and security can become suspicion. In an era when “stay home” can mean self-care, remote work, or retreat from civic life, Soul pushes the castle idea toward hospitality without denying the need for walls. The subtext is a challenge: if your home is purely a bunker, what kind of self are you protecting - and what kinds of connection are you refusing?
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Soul, David. (n.d.). Yes, your home is your castle, but it is also your identity and your possibility to be open to others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-your-home-is-your-castle-but-it-is-also-your-66078/
Chicago Style
Soul, David. "Yes, your home is your castle, but it is also your identity and your possibility to be open to others." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-your-home-is-your-castle-but-it-is-also-your-66078/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Yes, your home is your castle, but it is also your identity and your possibility to be open to others." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yes-your-home-is-your-castle-but-it-is-also-your-66078/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.


