"Y'know what? This is what I go by: It doesn't matter how good-looking a guy is, it just depends on his personality. If a guy can make you laugh and make fun of you, then that's what would win me over. So, yeah"
About this Quote
The specific intent is clear: to declare standards that feel accessible and emotionally legible. Personality becomes the moral alibi for attraction, but also the practical one. Humor, in her framing, isn’t just a nice add-on; it’s a power move. "Make you laugh" signals warmth and ease. "Make fun of you" is sharper: not cruelty, but play, the kind of teasing that implies intimacy and equal footing. It’s a test for comfort and chemistry, a low-stakes way to ask, can we spar without anyone bleeding?
The subtext is that looks are obvious, even boring. What counts is social intelligence: timing, confidence, the ability to read someone and take a risk. Coming from an actress whose public image has been filtered through the male gaze, it’s also a subtle reclaiming of agency. She’s not denying attraction; she’s reframing it as something she gets to adjudicate, based on how a man makes her feel in motion, not how he photographs at rest.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bilson, Rachel. (2026, January 16). Y'know what? This is what I go by: It doesn't matter how good-looking a guy is, it just depends on his personality. If a guy can make you laugh and make fun of you, then that's what would win me over. So, yeah. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yknow-what-this-is-what-i-go-by-it-doesnt-matter-109458/
Chicago Style
Bilson, Rachel. "Y'know what? This is what I go by: It doesn't matter how good-looking a guy is, it just depends on his personality. If a guy can make you laugh and make fun of you, then that's what would win me over. So, yeah." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yknow-what-this-is-what-i-go-by-it-doesnt-matter-109458/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Y'know what? This is what I go by: It doesn't matter how good-looking a guy is, it just depends on his personality. If a guy can make you laugh and make fun of you, then that's what would win me over. So, yeah." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/yknow-what-this-is-what-i-go-by-it-doesnt-matter-109458/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.





