"You are a person of the greatest importance when you are a mother of a family. Just do your job right and your kids will love you"
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The line also carries a protective pragmatism. “Just do your job right” frames motherhood not as mystical destiny but as work with standards, competence, and consequences. That phrasing resists the sugary pedestal culture around mothers while still insisting the role matters. It’s both dignifying and bracing: if you want love, earn it through consistency, care, and reliability, not martyrdom or performance.
Still, the subtext is complicated. Waters’s certainty brushes up against the reality that “doing your job right” doesn’t guarantee affection; families are not meritocracies. The quote reads like advice shaped by an era that offered women - especially Black women - limited routes to security and respect, and where maternal sacrifice was often treated as the only socially legible form of female authority.
So it works as both affirmation and boundary-setting: don’t let the world define your worth, and don’t romanticize the role either. Motherhood, in Waters’s telling, is power precisely because it’s unglamorous, consequential, and yours to execute.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Ethel. (2026, January 17). You are a person of the greatest importance when you are a mother of a family. Just do your job right and your kids will love you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-are-a-person-of-the-greatest-importance-when-59397/
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Waters, Ethel. "You are a person of the greatest importance when you are a mother of a family. Just do your job right and your kids will love you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-are-a-person-of-the-greatest-importance-when-59397/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You are a person of the greatest importance when you are a mother of a family. Just do your job right and your kids will love you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-are-a-person-of-the-greatest-importance-when-59397/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




