"You are doing better than you think you are"
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Its intent is less pep talk than cognitive intervention. By targeting "than you think", Cohen locates the problem in perception, not performance. That’s the move: if the bottleneck is your internal narration, then progress becomes available immediately, without waiting for external validation. It’s comfort that preserves agency. You don’t need the world to change; you need your lens to stop catastrophizing.
The subtext is also strategically non-specific. "Better" doesn’t specify salary, status, or happiness. That vagueness is a feature, not a bug: it lets the listener plug in whatever private shame metric is currently running their life. It’s a universal adapter for impostor syndrome, burnout, and the creeping suspicion that everyone else got the memo.
In a business context, the line doubles as a productivity tool. Calm people make decisions; panicked people make mistakes. By lowering the emotional temperature, it nudges you back toward steadier execution. The promise isn’t that everything is fine. It’s that your self-assessment is probably harsher than reality, and that gap is where momentum returns.
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