"You are never really prepared for criticism"
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Success does not inoculate anyone against the sting of being judged. Barry Gibb earned towering acclaim as a songwriter and performer, yet his career shows how public adoration and public criticism can arrive with equal force. The Bee Gees moved from 1960s baroque pop to the bright, falsetto-driven sound that defined Saturday Night Fever, and then lived through the ferocious backlash that followed. When disco became a cultural scapegoat, their voices and even their faces were targets. Songs were still selling, but stadiums filled to boo the genre. Preparation in the form of awards, sales, or decades on stage cannot blunt the shock of being dismissed by people you hoped to move.
The line carries a simple psychological truth. Criticism hits identity, not just output. Every new song or performance exposes a fresh part of the self, so experience cannot fully defend against the vulnerability that creation requires. Negative feedback also lands with disproportionate weight due to our brain's bias toward threat. Even when an artist knows this, the body still flinches. You can learn techniques to cope, separate the work from the self, listen for useful notes and ignore the rest, but the first encounter always has a jolt you cannot rehearse away.
Gibb's long arc adds perspective. He wrote standards for country, pop, and soul; collaborated with icons; returned to stages decades later to find audiences singing along with affection. Time softened verdicts, and many critics reappraised the craft beneath the glitter. That evolution does not erase the memories of scorn, but it shows why bracing for judgment is a false promise. You cannot foresee the tone, timing, or target of criticism, and you cannot calibrate your heart in advance. What you can do is accept its inevitability, keep faith with the work, and let endurance speak. Preparedness falters; persistence does not.
The line carries a simple psychological truth. Criticism hits identity, not just output. Every new song or performance exposes a fresh part of the self, so experience cannot fully defend against the vulnerability that creation requires. Negative feedback also lands with disproportionate weight due to our brain's bias toward threat. Even when an artist knows this, the body still flinches. You can learn techniques to cope, separate the work from the self, listen for useful notes and ignore the rest, but the first encounter always has a jolt you cannot rehearse away.
Gibb's long arc adds perspective. He wrote standards for country, pop, and soul; collaborated with icons; returned to stages decades later to find audiences singing along with affection. Time softened verdicts, and many critics reappraised the craft beneath the glitter. That evolution does not erase the memories of scorn, but it shows why bracing for judgment is a false promise. You cannot foresee the tone, timing, or target of criticism, and you cannot calibrate your heart in advance. What you can do is accept its inevitability, keep faith with the work, and let endurance speak. Preparedness falters; persistence does not.
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