"You are unique, and if that is not fulfilled, then something has been lost"
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The subtext is almost sternly anti-generic. Uniqueness, here, isn’t a certificate you receive at birth; it’s a practice you either commit to or abandon. Graham built a technique that treated emotion as muscular fact - contraction, release, repetition until it becomes truth onstage. So when she warns that “something has been lost,” she’s not talking about your personal regret alone. She’s talking about cultural loss: the audience never gets the specific angle only you can offer, the art form never absorbs your deviation from the norm, the future never inherits your particular insistence.
Context matters: Graham rose in a century that industrialized bodies (factory time, standardized beauty, ballet’s strict codes) while also expanding who could claim a stage. Her statement rejects the comforting myth that talent will “shine through” on its own. It also pushes back against the idea that art is optional self-expression. For Graham, authenticity is not self-indulgence; it’s a duty to the collective record. The threat isn’t failure. The threat is erasure.
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Graham, Martha. (2026, January 17). You are unique, and if that is not fulfilled, then something has been lost. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-are-unique-and-if-that-is-not-fulfilled-then-57386/
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"You are unique, and if that is not fulfilled, then something has been lost." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-are-unique-and-if-that-is-not-fulfilled-then-57386/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







