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Daily Inspiration Quote by Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed"

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A single sentence that sounds like a bedtime moral, then quietly rewires your idea of love. In The Little Prince, Saint-Exupery doesn’t romanticize “taming” as conquest; he frames it as relationship-creation. To tame is to make someone or something “not like the others,” to build a private meaning out of repetition, attention, and trust. The sting is the price tag: once you’ve made that bond, you don’t get to pretend you’re a passerby.

The intent is ethical, not sentimental. “Forever” is doing the heavy lifting, pushing back against the modern fantasy that intimacy can be trial-run and then returned to the shelf. The line carries a subtle accusation: if you invite dependence, if you shape another’s world by your presence, you inherit obligations whether or not it’s convenient. That’s why it lands harder than a generic plea to be kind; it ties responsibility to agency. You chose to matter.

The subtext is also an uneasy critique of possessive affection. “Tamed” can sound hierarchical, and Saint-Exupery lets that discomfort stand. The point isn’t that the tamer owns the tamed; it’s that the tamer is no longer free of consequences. Care creates asymmetry: the one who initiates can leave, but the one transformed is left holding the change.

Written by a pilot and wartime witness to fracture and loss, Saint-Exupery smuggles a post-disillusionment credo into a fable. In a world skilled at abandonment, he argues that connection is a moral contract you draft with your actions, not your intentions.

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TopicFriendship
SourceAntoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince (Le Petit Prince), 1943; Chapter XXI — line spoken by the fox in standard English translations.
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Antoine de Saint-Exupery (June 29, 1900 - July 31, 1944) was a Novelist from France.

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