"You begin by always expecting good things to happen"
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Hopkins turns optimism into a deliberate operating system, not a mood. “You begin” is doing heavy lifting: it frames expectation as the first move in a sequence, the mental posture that precedes every call, pitch, or awkward follow-up. In sales culture, where rejection is the baseline experience, that’s not motivational fluff; it’s survival strategy. If you expect the no, you unconsciously negotiate like someone trying to leave with their dignity intact. If you expect the yes, you stay in the conversation long enough for the yes to become plausible.
The subtext is behavioral. “Always expecting” isn’t magical thinking so much as self-management: you rehearse an outcome until your tone, body language, and persistence align with it. Hopkins is selling the idea that expectation is a lever on performance. People read confidence as competence; clients mirror the emotional temperature you set. The “good things” are conveniently vague because they need to be: in business, the win might be a closed deal, a referral, a second meeting, or simply not flinching when the objection lands. The phrase keeps the reward flexible while keeping the posture fixed.
Context matters. Hopkins emerged from a mid-to-late 20th-century American sales tradition built on scripts, repetition, and mindset training, where psychology is packaged as technique. The line is both empowering and a little coercive: it suggests that negative outcomes are, at least partly, a failure of expectation. That pressure is the trade-off. Expect good things, and you’re harder to break. Expect them “always,” and you’re asked to carry the system’s uncertainty on your own shoulders.
The subtext is behavioral. “Always expecting” isn’t magical thinking so much as self-management: you rehearse an outcome until your tone, body language, and persistence align with it. Hopkins is selling the idea that expectation is a lever on performance. People read confidence as competence; clients mirror the emotional temperature you set. The “good things” are conveniently vague because they need to be: in business, the win might be a closed deal, a referral, a second meeting, or simply not flinching when the objection lands. The phrase keeps the reward flexible while keeping the posture fixed.
Context matters. Hopkins emerged from a mid-to-late 20th-century American sales tradition built on scripts, repetition, and mindset training, where psychology is packaged as technique. The line is both empowering and a little coercive: it suggests that negative outcomes are, at least partly, a failure of expectation. That pressure is the trade-off. Expect good things, and you’re harder to break. Expect them “always,” and you’re asked to carry the system’s uncertainty on your own shoulders.
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