"You can forgive yourself a great deal"
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The subtext is almost therapeutic but not precious. Albert isn’t arguing that consequences disappear or that you get to rewrite harm. He’s pointing at the hidden dead-end: the belief that if you keep replaying the worst thing you’ve done (or failed to do), you’re somehow paying your debt. That loop feels like moral seriousness, but it’s often just ego in reverse - staying centered on yourself, even in shame.
Coming from an actor, the line also winks at performance. We learn scripts for being “the good person,” the “hard worker,” the “reliable one.” When we break character, we panic. Self-forgiveness becomes an editing room where you keep the take, acknowledge the miss, and still move the story forward.
In a late-life register, it reads as a veteran’s shorthand for endurance: you don’t survive decades, relationships, wars, careers, and compromises without learning that mercy isn’t weakness. It’s maintenance.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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Albert, Eddie. (2026, January 16). You can forgive yourself a great deal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-forgive-yourself-a-great-deal-111906/
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Albert, Eddie. "You can forgive yourself a great deal." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-forgive-yourself-a-great-deal-111906/.
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"You can forgive yourself a great deal." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-forgive-yourself-a-great-deal-111906/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






