"You can look back at anything and wish you'd done something differently"
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The intent feels less like confession than permission. Brickell isn’t glamorizing the ache of what-ifs; she’s naming its mechanics. The subtext is a quiet critique of perfectionism: if you allow the brain to treat every memory as a draft, you’ll never stop redlining your own life. That’s a particularly musician’s insight, too. Artists are trained to hear the “almost” - the note you could’ve held longer, the lyric you could’ve tightened. Transposed onto living, that sensibility can become a treadmill of revision.
Culturally, the quote reads like an antidote to a moment that sells optimization as morality. We’re encouraged to curate the self, track the self, brand the self - so of course we’re primed to audit the self. Brickell’s bluntness refuses the algorithmic promise that better choices were always just one click away. The past, she implies, is not a puzzle you failed; it’s a record of who you were with the information, energy, and courage you actually had.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brickell, Edie. (2026, January 17). You can look back at anything and wish you'd done something differently. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-look-back-at-anything-and-wish-youd-done-59028/
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Brickell, Edie. "You can look back at anything and wish you'd done something differently." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-look-back-at-anything-and-wish-youd-done-59028/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can look back at anything and wish you'd done something differently." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-look-back-at-anything-and-wish-youd-done-59028/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






