"You can only mend the vase so many times before you have to chuck it away"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t cruelty, it’s triage. “Only so many times” is the quiet metric of emotional labor, the tally of apologies, second chances, repairs that aren’t repairs so much as temporary patches. The verb “chuck” matters: blunt, unsentimental, almost physical. Not “let go,” not “move on.” Chuck. The line refuses the prestige language of healing and replaces it with a practical decision: sometimes you stop because continuing is its own kind of self-harm.
In the Fleetwood Mac ecosystem - a band practically built on romantic fracture and the art it generated - the metaphor lands with extra bite. Their mythology celebrates turning damage into songs, turning mess into melody. McVie’s subtext pushes back: yes, art can come from chaos, but a life can’t run indefinitely on repairs. Some things aren’t meant to be endlessly refurbished; they’re meant to be replaced, or left behind, so the room can breathe again.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McVie, Christine. (2026, January 16). You can only mend the vase so many times before you have to chuck it away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-only-mend-the-vase-so-many-times-before-135009/
Chicago Style
McVie, Christine. "You can only mend the vase so many times before you have to chuck it away." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-only-mend-the-vase-so-many-times-before-135009/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can only mend the vase so many times before you have to chuck it away." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-can-only-mend-the-vase-so-many-times-before-135009/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





