"You can stroke people with words"
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That double edge fits Fitzgerald’s world perfectly: a culture of surfaces where charm is currency and sentences can operate like champagne. In his fiction, people are constantly being persuaded into feelings they can’t quite justify - not by arguments, but by atmosphere. He understood how a well-turned phrase can bypass reason and go straight for vanity, longing, shame. Words become a kind of social foreplay, a way to make someone feel singular, seen, chosen.
The line also quietly indicts the writer. If words can stroke, then the author is in the position of the lover, the advertiser, the con artist - or all three at once. It acknowledges the ethics problem baked into style: beautiful language doesn’t just illuminate experience, it shapes it, tilts it, sometimes sweet-talks us into complicity. Fitzgerald, who lived amid publicity, performance, and self-mythmaking, knew that the American dream runs on precisely this kind of verbal seduction.
It’s a compact theory of persuasion dressed up as a confession: intimacy is achievable, even manufacturable, and the instrument is syntax.
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