"You cannot get ahead while you are getting even"
About this Quote
The subtext is cultural as much as personal. Coming from a Republican congressional leader closely associated with the 1990s conservative project, the quote reads like a small, quotable argument for turning away from resentment politics: stop litigating old slights, stop refighting yesterday's battles, focus on growth, reform, winning. It's an attempt to reframe conflict in a language the American center-right loves - not forgiveness, but efficiency. The moral claim is smuggled in as a strategic one.
There's also a canny bit of rhetorical judo. By condemning "getting even", Armey invites listeners to see themselves as above pettiness while keeping the competitive frame intact: you should still want to "get ahead". It's not a call to lay down arms; it's a call to redirect them.
The line works because it flatters the audience's self-image (builders, not complainers) while quietly delegitimizing opponents who dwell on historical wrongs as backward-looking, unserious, stuck. In politics, that's not therapy; it's positioning.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Armey, Dick. (2026, January 17). You cannot get ahead while you are getting even. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cannot-get-ahead-while-you-are-getting-even-51017/
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Armey, Dick. "You cannot get ahead while you are getting even." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cannot-get-ahead-while-you-are-getting-even-51017/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You cannot get ahead while you are getting even." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cannot-get-ahead-while-you-are-getting-even-51017/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








