"You can't choose up sides on a round world"
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The subtext is classic Dyer: ego is the real culprit, not the argument. “Up” signals superiority, purity, righteousness - the little psychic perks we get from being correct. By calling the world “round,” he smuggles in a spiritual anthropology: everyone is living inside a different orientation system shaped by upbringing, fear, belonging, and pain. The move is subtle but pointed. If no one can literally occupy “up,” then moral grandstanding starts to look like a coping strategy rather than a conviction.
Context matters. Dyer emerged in the late-20th-century self-help boom, when therapy language drifted into mainstream culture and personal transformation was pitched as a civic virtue. Read against today’s outrage economy, the quote doubles as a critique of algorithmic combat: platforms reward “upness” - certainty, dominance, dunking - even as the problems we argue about (health, climate, inequality) are planetary by nature. His rhetorical trick is to make humility feel logical, not just virtuous. The world’s shape becomes an argument for a different kind of strength: staying grounded when everyone’s fighting for altitude.
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Dyer, Wayne. (2026, January 17). You can't choose up sides on a round world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-choose-up-sides-on-a-round-world-34905/
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Dyer, Wayne. "You can't choose up sides on a round world." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-choose-up-sides-on-a-round-world-34905/.
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"You can't choose up sides on a round world." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-choose-up-sides-on-a-round-world-34905/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








