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Marriage Quote by Eva Longoria

"You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing"

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Longoria’s line lands because it punctures the glossy mythology of celebrity romance with the most unglamorous metric imaginable: hours. Not scandal, not incompatibility, not “growing apart” in the abstract - just two people clocking matching 14-hour shifts and discovering that proximity isn’t the same as presence. The specificity of “in the same city” is the knife twist. It rejects the convenient excuse of distance and replaces it with a more modern villain: work that consumes the day so thoroughly that the relationship can’t even access the scraps.

The intent feels less like confession than a corrective. Longoria isn’t romanticizing sacrifice or inviting pity; she’s normalizing a boundary. By framing it as “a time thing and it’s a together thing,” she strips relationship failure of melodrama and recasts it as logistics - which is precisely why it hits. Logistics are boring, and boredom is often where intimacy goes to die.

In Hollywood context, this also reads as an indictment of an industry that treats 14-hour days as standard, even virtuous, especially for people trying to sustain ambition and partnership simultaneously. The subtext is that love doesn’t compete well against schedules engineered for maximum output. It’s a quiet argument against the hustle-as-identity narrative: if “together” is a material condition, not a feeling, then no amount of chemistry can substitute for shared, protected time.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Longoria, Eva. (2026, January 17). You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/

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Longoria, Eva. "You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Eva Longoria (born March 15, 1975) is a Actress from USA.

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