"You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing"
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The intent feels less like confession than a corrective. Longoria isn’t romanticizing sacrifice or inviting pity; she’s normalizing a boundary. By framing it as “a time thing and it’s a together thing,” she strips relationship failure of melodrama and recasts it as logistics - which is precisely why it hits. Logistics are boring, and boredom is often where intimacy goes to die.
In Hollywood context, this also reads as an indictment of an industry that treats 14-hour days as standard, even virtuous, especially for people trying to sustain ambition and partnership simultaneously. The subtext is that love doesn’t compete well against schedules engineered for maximum output. It’s a quiet argument against the hustle-as-identity narrative: if “together” is a material condition, not a feeling, then no amount of chemistry can substitute for shared, protected time.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Longoria, Eva. (2026, January 17). You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/
Chicago Style
Longoria, Eva. "You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can't have a relationship when you're shooting a 14-hour day and your husband is shooting a 14-hour day in the same city. It's a time thing and it's a together thing." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-have-a-relationship-when-youre-shooting-61267/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



