"You can't tell them anything, but hopefully they will learn from the example and won't have to go through it"
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The pivot is “hopefully.” Taylor doesn’t pretend mentorship is a magic lever. He’s admitting the limits of control: you can’t download wisdom into someone’s brain, you can only live loud enough that your life becomes a cautionary highlight reel. That’s the subtext of “the example.” It’s not a sanitized success story; it’s the whole messy package - the collisions, the temptations, the fame that turns into a test, the mistakes that follow you longer than stats do.
Context matters because Taylor isn’t speaking as a TED Talk sage. He’s a football myth who also embodied the era’s darker circuitry: celebrity excess, risk, and the brutal bargain of a sport that treats bodies as disposable. When he says “won’t have to go through it,” he’s naming the hope every veteran has: let my scars be useful to someone else. The tragedy he’s hinting at is that they probably won’t be. In sports, the next generation doesn’t just inherit lessons; it inherits the same illusions.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Taylor, Lawrence. (2026, January 16). You can't tell them anything, but hopefully they will learn from the example and won't have to go through it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-tell-them-anything-but-hopefully-they-102124/
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Taylor, Lawrence. "You can't tell them anything, but hopefully they will learn from the example and won't have to go through it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-tell-them-anything-but-hopefully-they-102124/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can't tell them anything, but hopefully they will learn from the example and won't have to go through it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-tell-them-anything-but-hopefully-they-102124/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.








