"You can't think about things you want to change. Just be yourself"
About this Quote
The syntax does the work. The first sentence is blunt and slightly paradoxical - of course you can think about change - but the exaggeration signals emotional truth: rumination corrodes. Then comes the pivot, "Just be yourself", a phrase that usually lands as generic advice, but here reads like a survival tactic. "Just" is the pressure valve, a plea to stop negotiating with an imaginary casting director living in your head.
Embry, a recognizable face from teen comedies and character roles, sits in a professional lane where individuality is both currency and liability. That context matters. When your livelihood depends on being legible to strangers, you’re tempted to edit yourself into whatever you think is booking right now. The subtext is less self-help poster, more quiet resistance: authenticity isn’t a brand; it’s a boundary. The intent is to redirect energy away from anxious self-correction and back toward presence - the one thing you can actually deliver on cue.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Embry, Ethan. (2026, January 17). You can't think about things you want to change. Just be yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-think-about-things-you-want-to-change-53582/
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Embry, Ethan. "You can't think about things you want to change. Just be yourself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-think-about-things-you-want-to-change-53582/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You can't think about things you want to change. Just be yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-cant-think-about-things-you-want-to-change-53582/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







