"You do have to be fairly selfish when you have a gift. You cannot afford to let too many outside things get in the way"
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The subtext is a quiet defense against the expectation that artists owe constant availability to other people’s needs: family obligations, social demands, industry noise, even the tyranny of being liked. Brightman’s career context matters here. As a crossover soprano who moved between pop spectacle and classical discipline, she’s operated in a world where the performance is high-stakes and the brand is always on. That kind of public-facing artistry turns boundaries into a survival skill. “Cannot afford” is doing heavy lifting: it implies real consequences, not just vague self-care. Missed practice shows up in a live performance; depleted energy shows up in the voice.
There’s also a subtle reframing of “gift.” It’s often treated as something that arrives fully formed, a blessing you simply share. Brightman hints at the opposite: a gift is fragile and conditional, something you steward. Her “selfishness” is less about ego than about refusing to let other people’s priorities spend the one resource an artist can’t replenish: sustained, protected attention.
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Brightman, Sarah. (2026, January 16). You do have to be fairly selfish when you have a gift. You cannot afford to let too many outside things get in the way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-do-have-to-be-fairly-selfish-when-you-have-a-123048/
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Brightman, Sarah. "You do have to be fairly selfish when you have a gift. You cannot afford to let too many outside things get in the way." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-do-have-to-be-fairly-selfish-when-you-have-a-123048/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You do have to be fairly selfish when you have a gift. You cannot afford to let too many outside things get in the way." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-do-have-to-be-fairly-selfish-when-you-have-a-123048/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








