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Creativity Quote by Beverly Sills

"You don't always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don't ask for... unless it's contagious!"

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Beverly Sills takes the bland self-help staple "ask and you shall receive" and gives it stage sparkle: part career advice, part backstage eye-roll. Coming from an opera star who fought her way into a notoriously gatekept world, the first clause lands like lived experience. Talent is table stakes; outcomes hinge on auditions, agents, donors, timing, and taste. "You don't always get what you ask for" admits the arbitrariness of any creative economy, where rejection is less verdict than weather.

Then she pivots to something sharper: "but you never get what you don't ask for". It sounds like motivation, but the subtext is about agency in a system designed to keep you polite and grateful. Asking is framed as a form of professional self-respect - negotiating fees, requesting roles, demanding rehearsal time, lobbying for a program change. Sills isn't promising victory; she's insisting on the refusal to pre-lose.

The punchline, "unless it's contagious", is the real tell. It's Sills-the-performer undercutting earnestness before it curdles into sermon. Humor becomes a pressure valve, acknowledging that life hands out plenty unrequested: illness, rumors, panic, fads, even enthusiasm. For a singer whose instrument was her body, contagion isn't abstract; it's occupational hazard and existential threat. The joke also punctures the American hustle myth with a small, wicked truth: the world is not a vending machine. You should still push the button - just don't confuse the act of asking with control.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
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Verified source: 1000 Pocket Positives (2003)ISBN: 9781857038965 · ID: 2pZo2hudZ-IC
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... You don't always get what you ask for , but you never get what you don't ask for ... unless it's contagious ! Beverly Sills Relationships 852. Don't smother each other . No one can grow in the shade . Leo Buscaglia 853. The easiest kind ...
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Sills, Beverly. (2026, February 15). You don't always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don't ask for... unless it's contagious! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-always-get-what-you-ask-for-but-you-47883/

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Sills, Beverly. "You don't always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don't ask for... unless it's contagious!" FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-always-get-what-you-ask-for-but-you-47883/.

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"You don't always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don't ask for... unless it's contagious!" FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-always-get-what-you-ask-for-but-you-47883/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Beverly Sills

Beverly Sills (May 25, 1929 - July 2, 2007) was a Musician from USA.

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