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Life & Mortality Quote by Joan Baez

"You don't get to choose how you are going to die or when. You can only decide how you're going to live"

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Baez’s line lands like a calm rebuke to the modern fantasy of control. In a culture that sells optimization as salvation - biohacking, “clean” living, endless self-tracking - she snaps the frame back to something older and harsher: mortality is nonnegotiable. The power is in the grammar. “You don’t get to choose” is blunt, almost parental, and it strips away the sentimental comfort people attach to the idea of a “good death.” Then she pivots to the only domain that isn’t rigged: “You can only decide how you’re going to live.” Only is doing heavy work, narrowing the horizon to an everyday ethics.

Coming from Baez, the subtext isn’t just personal wellness; it’s civic posture. Her public life - protest songs, civil rights marches, anti-war activism - treats living as a series of deliberate stances taken under pressure. The quote implies that meaning isn’t found in avoiding danger or delaying the end, but in choosing what you stand for while you’re here. That reads as both liberation and indictment: if death is out of your hands, then “I had no choice” becomes a thinner excuse for cowardice, complacency, or silence.

There’s also a musician’s sense of time baked in. Songs are finite; their urgency comes from the fact that they end. Baez turns that structure into a worldview: you can’t control the last note, but you can choose whether the performance is honest.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Baez, Joan. (2026, January 15). You don't get to choose how you are going to die or when. You can only decide how you're going to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-get-to-choose-how-you-are-going-to-die-122924/

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Baez, Joan. "You don't get to choose how you are going to die or when. You can only decide how you're going to live." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-get-to-choose-how-you-are-going-to-die-122924/.

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"You don't get to choose how you are going to die or when. You can only decide how you're going to live." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-get-to-choose-how-you-are-going-to-die-122924/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Joan Baez (born January 9, 1941) is a Musician from USA.

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