"You don't have to know people personally for them to be role models. Some of my most important role models were historical or literary figures that I only read about - never actually met"
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Role models don’t need to shake your hand; they need to reorganize your standards. John Wilson’s line pushes back against the cozy modern assumption that influence must be intimate, authenticated by proximity, or proven by a selfie. He’s defending a kind of moral and imaginative apprenticeship conducted at a distance: the reader as student, the page as training ground.
Wilson writes from a 19th-century literary culture where “knowing” someone often meant knowing their work, their reputation, their legend. In that world, books weren’t just entertainment; they were portable authority. His phrasing is quietly corrective: “don’t have to” frames personal contact as optional, even slightly overrated, while “only read about” treats reading as a legitimate form of relationship. The subtext is that character can be learned through narrative, and that admiration is an act of selection. You choose your models, assemble them, test them against your own life.
There’s also a subtle democratizing impulse. If role models require personal access, then mentorship becomes a luxury good, reserved for the well-connected. Wilson’s alternative is cheaper and wider: history and literature as an open archive of possible selves. At the same time, he’s hinting at a risk he doesn’t name: distant heroes are easier to idealize. Reading about someone lets you curate their virtues and skip their messy contradictions.
The quote works because it dignifies influence without demanding intimacy, and it stakes a claim for literature as ethical infrastructure, not just cultural ornament.
Wilson writes from a 19th-century literary culture where “knowing” someone often meant knowing their work, their reputation, their legend. In that world, books weren’t just entertainment; they were portable authority. His phrasing is quietly corrective: “don’t have to” frames personal contact as optional, even slightly overrated, while “only read about” treats reading as a legitimate form of relationship. The subtext is that character can be learned through narrative, and that admiration is an act of selection. You choose your models, assemble them, test them against your own life.
There’s also a subtle democratizing impulse. If role models require personal access, then mentorship becomes a luxury good, reserved for the well-connected. Wilson’s alternative is cheaper and wider: history and literature as an open archive of possible selves. At the same time, he’s hinting at a risk he doesn’t name: distant heroes are easier to idealize. Reading about someone lets you curate their virtues and skip their messy contradictions.
The quote works because it dignifies influence without demanding intimacy, and it stakes a claim for literature as ethical infrastructure, not just cultural ornament.
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