"You don't know a ladder has splinters until you slide down it"
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As a coach, Phillips lived inside a world where progress is incremental and public, and failure is not just personal but televised, rehashed, and moralized. The “splinters” are the small humiliations and unintended injuries you don’t notice on the way up: compromised values, strained relationships, ego, bad habits that were rewarded when you were winning. You can climb past them, but a slide back down makes every rough edge register at speed.
It also carries a subtle critique of the American “ladder” myth. We celebrate ascent as merit and treat descent as proof of defect, ignoring how the structure itself can be jagged. Phillips isn’t asking for sympathy; he’s offering realism. The line works because it’s tactile. You can feel it. It’s wisdom delivered as a bruise.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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Phillips, Bum. (2026, January 16). You don't know a ladder has splinters until you slide down it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-a-ladder-has-splinters-until-you-125497/
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Phillips, Bum. "You don't know a ladder has splinters until you slide down it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-a-ladder-has-splinters-until-you-125497/.
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"You don't know a ladder has splinters until you slide down it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-a-ladder-has-splinters-until-you-125497/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.














