"You don't know how to love God and your neighbor unless you look to the law to define it"
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The subtext is less about God than about gatekeeping. Terry isn’t merely praising moral structure; he’s narrowing the definition of love so it can be policed. “Law” here reads as a stand-in for a particular moral code (often tethered to conservative Christian activism) and, crucially, for public policy. It’s an argument for translating religious conviction into enforceable standards: if the law defines love, then legal restrictions can be framed not as coercion but as charity done “correctly.”
Context matters because Terry is known for confrontational culture-war activism. In that world, “love” becomes a rhetorical shield: you can claim benevolent intent while advocating punitive measures, because the “law” supposedly sanctifies the outcome. The line works because it flips a popular modern script. Instead of love challenging legalism, legalism becomes love’s instruction manual. That inversion is the point: it recasts moral debate as technical obedience, making dissent look like confusion rather than disagreement.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Terry, Randall. (2026, January 16). You don't know how to love God and your neighbor unless you look to the law to define it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-how-to-love-god-and-your-neighbor-89757/
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Terry, Randall. "You don't know how to love God and your neighbor unless you look to the law to define it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-how-to-love-god-and-your-neighbor-89757/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You don't know how to love God and your neighbor unless you look to the law to define it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-know-how-to-love-god-and-your-neighbor-89757/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.











