"You don't learn from a situation where you do something well. You enjoy it and you give yourself credit, but you don't really learn from that. You learn from trial and error, trial and error, all the time"
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The line also smuggles in a critique of ego. “You give yourself credit” isn’t framed as a sin, just as a psychological endpoint: credit closes the file. Learning, by contrast, requires leaving the file open, sitting in the awkward space where you can’t fully explain what happened and you don’t yet look impressive doing it. That’s why she hammers the rhythm of “trial and error, trial and error” - it mimics rehearsal, the unglamorous loop dancers live in, where progress is less epiphany than repetition with better information.
Context matters: Farrell’s career was shaped by high-stakes scrutiny and institutional gatekeeping, where a single “good” night could be treated as proof of worth, and a bad one as a verdict. Her reframing is quietly liberating. It moves the center of gravity from external validation (the performance) to internal process (the work). The subtext is resilience without romance: mistakes aren’t noble, they’re simply the price of becoming precise.
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Farrell, Suzanne. (2026, January 15). You don't learn from a situation where you do something well. You enjoy it and you give yourself credit, but you don't really learn from that. You learn from trial and error, trial and error, all the time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-learn-from-a-situation-where-you-do-151488/
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Farrell, Suzanne. "You don't learn from a situation where you do something well. You enjoy it and you give yourself credit, but you don't really learn from that. You learn from trial and error, trial and error, all the time." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-learn-from-a-situation-where-you-do-151488/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You don't learn from a situation where you do something well. You enjoy it and you give yourself credit, but you don't really learn from that. You learn from trial and error, trial and error, all the time." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-learn-from-a-situation-where-you-do-151488/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







