"You don't really get to pick and chose what you would like to be doing. But I've been very fortunate, and I think water seeks its own level. You do gravitate towards things that you would get off on"
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Then he pivots to luck, but not the self-debasing kind. “I’ve been very fortunate” is both gratitude and a subtle defense against the industry’s obsession with merit as moral proof. In Hollywood, success always invites a retrospective narrative: you “made it” because you were destined to. Paxton refuses that certainty while still claiming a pattern: “water seeks its own level.” It’s a folksy metaphor that smuggles in a worldview. You can’t control the river, but you can notice where it naturally runs.
The last sentence is the tell. “You do gravitate towards things that you would get off on” gives the whole quote its engine: desire. Paxton isn’t romanticizing aimlessness; he’s describing a quieter form of agency, where taste and curiosity act like a compass even when the map is chaos. The subtext is almost instructional for creatives: stop pretending you’re above appetite. Your obsessions are data. Your “level” isn’t a destiny so much as a repeated choice to follow what energizes you, especially when the industry keeps trying to assign you a brand.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Paxton, Bill. (2026, January 17). You don't really get to pick and chose what you would like to be doing. But I've been very fortunate, and I think water seeks its own level. You do gravitate towards things that you would get off on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-really-get-to-pick-and-chose-what-you-51475/
Chicago Style
Paxton, Bill. "You don't really get to pick and chose what you would like to be doing. But I've been very fortunate, and I think water seeks its own level. You do gravitate towards things that you would get off on." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-really-get-to-pick-and-chose-what-you-51475/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You don't really get to pick and chose what you would like to be doing. But I've been very fortunate, and I think water seeks its own level. You do gravitate towards things that you would get off on." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-really-get-to-pick-and-chose-what-you-51475/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







