"You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually, what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently - and I think that is what is going to make the difference"
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As a politician, she’s also describing a reality her profession frequently tries to dodge. “Talking about trust” reads like an indictment of inquiry rooms, apology tours, and scripted contrition - the ritual language of scandals and broken mandates. Promises are cheap because they’re infinitely reproducible; actions are expensive because they can be measured, repeated, and used against you. The subtext is accountability without the soothing rhetoric: if you want trust, you submit to scrutiny and you change what you do when nobody’s clapping.
The sentence is built to sound practical, almost managerial, which is part of its power. “Living it” is moral language disguised as operational advice. It signals seriousness without melodrama and shifts the debate from intentions to outcomes. In the likely context of public confidence - whether in a party, a leader, or government itself - Hewitt’s intent is to move the audience from cynicism about spin to a testable standard: watch us, don’t listen to us. That’s both a promise and a dare.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hewitt, Patricia. (2026, January 16). You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually, what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently - and I think that is what is going to make the difference. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-repair-that-relationship-by-sitting-down-101502/
Chicago Style
Hewitt, Patricia. "You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually, what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently - and I think that is what is going to make the difference." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-repair-that-relationship-by-sitting-down-101502/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually, what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently - and I think that is what is going to make the difference." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-repair-that-relationship-by-sitting-down-101502/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.











