"You don't say hello to Mr. DeNiro? Show the respect, will ya?"
About this Quote
The phrasing does the heavy lifting. “You don’t say hello” is framed as disbelief, but it’s accusation. “Show the respect” has the blunt rhythm of a street rule, not a polite reminder. Then Pesci softens it with “will ya?”-a faux-friendly tag that in his persona reads as pressure, not invitation. It’s the classic intimidation move: offer a tiny exit ramp while making it clear you’re already in trouble.
Culturally, it plays into the mythology Pesci helped cement across gangster cinema: status is performed in micro-rituals, and violence often arrives through protocol. De Niro functions as the untouchable symbol, the emperor you acknowledge to prove you understand the empire. Pesci’s character becomes the gatekeeper, policing reverence with the urgency of someone whose own power depends on enforcing the pecking order.
There’s also a meta-wink. De Niro, the revered actor, gets treated like royalty inside the scene because he’s treated like royalty outside it. The line feeds on that real-world aura, turning celebrity into an on-screen power structure you can feel.
Quote Details
| Topic | Respect |
|---|---|
| Source | Goodfellas (film), 1990 — line attributed to Joe Pesci speaking as Tommy DeVito. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pesci, Joe. (2026, January 15). You don't say hello to Mr. DeNiro? Show the respect, will ya? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-say-hello-to-mr-deniro-show-the-respect-146016/
Chicago Style
Pesci, Joe. "You don't say hello to Mr. DeNiro? Show the respect, will ya?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-say-hello-to-mr-deniro-show-the-respect-146016/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You don't say hello to Mr. DeNiro? Show the respect, will ya?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-dont-say-hello-to-mr-deniro-show-the-respect-146016/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.








