Skip to main content

Motherhood Quote by Quentin Crisp

"You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave"

About this Quote

Life, Quentin Crisp suggests, is less a hero’s journey than a slapstick relay between helplessness and oblivion. The line detonates because it compresses a whole biography into three blunt images: birth as ejection, adulthood as exposure, death as a final, undignified “drop.” No comforting arc, no narrative payoff. Just gravity and incoming fire.

Crisp’s intent isn’t nihilism for its own sake; it’s a refusal of the sentimental contract society offers in exchange for conformity. As a gay man who lived through the punitive moral regimes of mid-century Britain, he knew what it meant to move “across open country under fire” when the fire is public disgust, police attention, casual violence, and the steady pressure to disappear. The battlefield metaphor also ridicules the way culture glorifies struggle while ignoring who gets drafted into it. Everyone is told to be brave; not everyone is allowed to be safe.

The subtext is Crisp’s signature: camp pessimism sharpened into aphorism. He uses the plainest verbs - fall, crawl, drop - to strip away the illusion of control. “Open country” implies there’s nowhere to hide; “under fire” implies the attack is constant and largely indiscriminate. The sentence’s rhythm mimics a life mechanically pushed forward, one clause shoving the next.

Context matters: Crisp made a career out of turning vulnerability into performance and social cruelty into comedy. This line is that maneuver at maximum compression: a bleak joke that dares you to laugh, then asks why you ever expected something gentler.

Quote Details

TopicMortality
Source
Later attribution: Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Multitasking Mom’s Survi... (Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Am..., 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9781611599336 · ID: 94MNAwAAQBAJ
Text match: 95.00%   Provider: Google Books
Evidence:
... You fall out of your mother's womb , you crawl across open country under fire , and drop into your grave . ~ Quentin Crisp love the above quotation because that's how motherhood can feel , especially when your children are young . The ...
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Crisp, Quentin. (2026, February 11). You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-fall-out-of-your-mothers-womb-you-crawl-12374/

Chicago Style
Crisp, Quentin. "You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave." FixQuotes. February 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-fall-out-of-your-mothers-womb-you-crawl-12374/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-fall-out-of-your-mothers-womb-you-crawl-12374/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Quentin Add to List
Crawl Across Life: Quentin Crisp on Birth to Grave
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

Quentin Crisp

Quentin Crisp (December 25, 1908 - November 21, 1999) was a Writer from England.

36 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

John Wilkes Booth, Criminal
John Wilkes Booth
Marlene Dietrich, Actress