"You grow up, however, unfortunately, as the college years fly by, into a very exaggerated sense of your own capacities"
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“College years fly by” is doing double work. It’s not just nostalgia; it’s a warning about speed. The environment is accelerated - intellectual, social, hormonal - and that acceleration invites exaggerated self-assessment. You’re asked to have opinions on everything, rewarded for performative certainty, and buffered from the consequences that usually calibrate ambition. In that sheltered arena, “capacities” can mean talent, moral seriousness, even future significance. Mitchell implies that the exaggeration is almost structural: colleges produce not merely educated people but people temporarily convinced education is the same as capability.
Mitchell writes as a 19th-century American essayist watching higher education become a pipeline to status in a country obsessed with self-making. The subtext is gently corrective, not anti-intellectual: learning is valuable, but the culture around learning can inflate the ego faster than the skills can catch up. It’s a wry reminder that adulthood often begins when the world stops grading you on potential and starts charging you for results.
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| Topic | Youth |
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Mitchell, Donald G. (2026, February 17). You grow up, however, unfortunately, as the college years fly by, into a very exaggerated sense of your own capacities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-grow-up-however-unfortunately-as-the-college-110725/
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"You grow up, however, unfortunately, as the college years fly by, into a very exaggerated sense of your own capacities." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-grow-up-however-unfortunately-as-the-college-110725/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.



