"You have come to a stage where you almost have to work on yourself. You know, on finding some tranquility with which to respond to these things, because I realize that the biggest risk that many of us run is beginning to get inured to the horrors"
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The phrasing is deliberately provisional and conversational ("You know", "almost have to"), which softens what is essentially an indictment. She’s not scolding from a pedestal; she’s including herself in "many of us", making complicity a shared condition rather than a personal failure. "Tranquility" lands with irony. It’s not tranquility as escapism, but as steadiness - the kind that prevents panic, cynicism, or numbness from taking over your moral reflexes. In Roy’s world, calm is not the opposite of anger; it’s the discipline that keeps anger usable.
The subtext is a critique of modern attention: endless crises, endless images, endless commentary. When horror becomes content, spectatorship starts to mimic participation, and the psyche protects itself by going dull. Roy’s warning is that numbness is political. Once you’re "inured", you don’t just feel less; you consent more easily. The quote reads like a small manual for remaining human under pressure: tend your inner life not to withdraw from the world, but to keep your response from being engineered into silence.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roy, Arundhati. (2026, January 17). You have come to a stage where you almost have to work on yourself. You know, on finding some tranquility with which to respond to these things, because I realize that the biggest risk that many of us run is beginning to get inured to the horrors. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-come-to-a-stage-where-you-almost-have-to-35337/
Chicago Style
Roy, Arundhati. "You have come to a stage where you almost have to work on yourself. You know, on finding some tranquility with which to respond to these things, because I realize that the biggest risk that many of us run is beginning to get inured to the horrors." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-come-to-a-stage-where-you-almost-have-to-35337/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You have come to a stage where you almost have to work on yourself. You know, on finding some tranquility with which to respond to these things, because I realize that the biggest risk that many of us run is beginning to get inured to the horrors." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-come-to-a-stage-where-you-almost-have-to-35337/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






