"You have to assert something about yourself in order to be yourself"
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The verb “assert” does the heavy lifting. It suggests pressure, resistance, even conflict. You assert a claim when it’s disputed, when the world is inclined to misname you, flatten you, or decide you’re easier to categorize than to understand. In Potter’s universe - crowded with performance, fantasy, and social scripts - selfhood isn’t the opposite of acting. It’s a form of it, and the most honest kind: choosing your lines instead of letting them be written for you.
That subtext fits a dramatist obsessed with how people survive by narrating themselves. Potter lived with severe chronic illness, and his work repeatedly stages the gap between inner life and outer constraint. When your body, class background, or public image becomes a kind of costume forced on you, “being yourself” stops sounding like a lifestyle slogan and starts sounding like a fight.
The line also carries a warning: if you don’t assert something, someone else will do it for you. Silence, in this formulation, isn’t neutrality; it’s surrender.
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"You have to assert something about yourself in order to be yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-assert-something-about-yourself-in-55869/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







