"You have to be a little unreal to be in this business"
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The line carries a quiet double edge. "Unreal" reads like glamour - the carefully lit, carefully styled fantasy the industry sells - but it also hints at dissociation, the psychological distance performers cultivate to endure scrutiny. If you internalize every review, audition rejection, or paparazzi frame as a referendum on your worth, you burn out fast. If you don’t internalize any of it, you become "difficult" or "cold". The sweet spot is a calibrated unreality: enough self-mythology to keep going, enough detachment to keep sane.
Context matters with Basinger: a star shaped by late-20th-century celebrity culture, where actresses were expected to embody an ideal and apologize for wanting control. Her career included both iconic success and public conflict with the machinery (contracts, headlines, the obligation to be endlessly "available"). The quote functions like an insider’s wink and a warning: the industry doesn’t just cast characters; it casts the person. To stay employed, you learn to be two things at once - human and projection.
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Basinger, Kim. (2026, January 15). You have to be a little unreal to be in this business. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-be-a-little-unreal-to-be-in-this-170589/
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"You have to be a little unreal to be in this business." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-be-a-little-unreal-to-be-in-this-170589/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





