"You have to be reasonable with yourself and not feel guilty when things aren't perfect"
About this Quote
Coming from an actress whose public image was built under relentless scrutiny, the context matters. Celebrity culture trains women especially to perform seamlessness: ageless beauty, effortless success, a body that never bloats and a mood that never sours. “When things aren’t perfect” nods to that impossible contract, but the sentence refuses to romanticize the hustle required to maintain it. The subtext is a boundary: your worth doesn’t rise and fall with optics.
The intent feels practical, even maternal, the kind of wisdom that survives because it’s usable. “Be reasonable” implies a negotiated peace with reality: setting expectations that account for fatigue, time, money, and grief. It’s not self-help glitter; it’s a permission slip to choose sustainability over performance. And in 2026, with burnout treated like a badge and “optimization” masquerading as self-care, that’s sharper than it sounds.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Jaclyn. (2026, January 16). You have to be reasonable with yourself and not feel guilty when things aren't perfect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-be-reasonable-with-yourself-and-not-112845/
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Smith, Jaclyn. "You have to be reasonable with yourself and not feel guilty when things aren't perfect." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-be-reasonable-with-yourself-and-not-112845/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You have to be reasonable with yourself and not feel guilty when things aren't perfect." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-be-reasonable-with-yourself-and-not-112845/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










