"You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what you're going to do with it"
About this Quote
The intent feels practical and political at once. Bright isn’t romanticizing leisure; she’s describing a survival tactic in a world that treats attention as a resource to be harvested. If your life is governed by work, caregiving, notifications, and the low-grade guilt of not optimizing yourself, “time for yourself” doesn’t appear naturally. It has to be made visible and protected in the only language modern life reliably respects: the calendar.
Subtext: you don’t owe anyone a justification for solitude, rest, or aimless desire. Coming from Bright, a writer associated with frank talk about sex, autonomy, and permission, the message carries extra bite. Not knowing what you’ll do is the point; it’s where appetite, curiosity, and honest fatigue can surface without being shaped into a deliverable. The quote argues that freedom isn’t a feeling you stumble into. It’s a boundary you book in advance.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Care |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bright, Susie. (2026, January 15). You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what you're going to do with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-calendar-time-for-yourself-even-if-119236/
Chicago Style
Bright, Susie. "You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what you're going to do with it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-calendar-time-for-yourself-even-if-119236/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what you're going to do with it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-calendar-time-for-yourself-even-if-119236/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








