"You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself"
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The subtext is a quiet rejection of perfectionism and of the culture that sells certainty as confidence. “You are going to be all right” isn’t a promise of stardom; it’s reassurance that stability comes from calibration, not conquest. “Accept realistic goals” can read like a buzzkill, but coming from an actress who navigated Hollywood’s punishing standards, it’s a survival tactic. Realistic doesn’t mean small. It means measurable, human-scaled, resilient to rejection.
Context matters: Garr’s public life included a long, high-profile career and later living with multiple sclerosis, a diagnosis that forces a renegotiation of what “goals” even mean. That history gives the line its emotional torque. She’s not romanticizing struggle; she’s outlining a way to stay intact. The quote works because it offers permission: to experiment, to adjust, to define success without asking the room to agree.
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Garr, Teri. (2026, January 16). You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-find-out-whats-right-for-you-so-its-82900/
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Garr, Teri. "You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-find-out-whats-right-for-you-so-its-82900/.
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"You have to find out what's right for you, so it's trial and error. You are going to be all right if you accept realistic goals for yourself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-find-out-whats-right-for-you-so-its-82900/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









