"You have to have enough respect for other human beings to leave their lives alone. If you admire that life, build it for yourself. Don't just try to come in and take somebody else's life"
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The subtext is about entitlement. “Take somebody else’s life” isn’t just literal theft or invasion; it’s the whole spectrum of appropriation: crashing into another person’s relationships, identity, spotlight, even narrative. Edwards draws a sharp distinction between admiration and coveting. Admiration should be catalytic, she argues, turning outward desire into inward work. Coveting turns other people into objects you can occupy.
Context gives the quote its bite. Edwards lived in the public blast radius of politics and scandal, where private lives become common property and people feel licensed to trespass: the press, the electorate, the rival, the “other woman,” the opportunist. Her wording reads like someone who has watched spectators confuse intimacy with access. It also anticipates modern social media pathology, where “inspiration” can slide into imitation, stalking, or identity laundering.
Why it works is its simple reversal: if you like what you see, don’t seize it; replicate the values and labor that produced it. Edwards makes respect actionable. Not “be kind,” but “do the harder thing: earn your own life.”
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| Topic | Respect |
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Edwards, Elizabeth. (n.d.). You have to have enough respect for other human beings to leave their lives alone. If you admire that life, build it for yourself. Don't just try to come in and take somebody else's life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-have-enough-respect-for-other-human-58061/
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Edwards, Elizabeth. "You have to have enough respect for other human beings to leave their lives alone. If you admire that life, build it for yourself. Don't just try to come in and take somebody else's life." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-have-enough-respect-for-other-human-58061/.
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"You have to have enough respect for other human beings to leave their lives alone. If you admire that life, build it for yourself. Don't just try to come in and take somebody else's life." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-have-enough-respect-for-other-human-58061/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











