"You have to remember, I didn't want this life"
About this Quote
“I didn’t want this life” lands because it’s both specific and evasive. He doesn’t say he didn’t want singing, or the stage, or success. He says “this life” - the total package: the travel, the expectations, the permanent availability, the way a persona becomes a job you can’t clock out of. That vagueness is strategic; it protects the speaker while indicting the system. It hints at a life that got negotiated for him by audiences, managers, and the era’s entertainment machine.
Context matters: Goulet came up in the high-gloss mid-century world of television variety shows and Broadway-adjacent stardom, where charisma was currency and privacy was collateral. The subtext is a kind of late-career truth-telling, the grown-up version of buyer’s remorse: he can acknowledge the perks while insisting they were never the point. The intent isn’t self-pity; it’s reclamation. He’s asking to be seen not as a brand who chose his fate, but as a human being who adapted to it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Goulet, Robert. (2026, January 15). You have to remember, I didn't want this life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-remember-i-didnt-want-this-life-116009/
Chicago Style
Goulet, Robert. "You have to remember, I didn't want this life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-remember-i-didnt-want-this-life-116009/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You have to remember, I didn't want this life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/you-have-to-remember-i-didnt-want-this-life-116009/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.









